well?

[ThatGirl]

I have decided that I am done with ESTPs. I just can't fake it enough to attract them. After careful consideration I have decided that I would be best suited with a tall sucessful handsome INTJ male. I have no doubts that after the first meeting I can take it from there, but here is my problem. I work a lot and go to school full time, so unless an INTJ male walks into an expensive salon to get a haircut our paths won't cross. I find that unlikely. I don't have a lot of time to spend searching. So how do you happen to come across an INTJ male?

Also do they differ dramatically from an INTJ female?


One last thing edahn think pulp fiction. Out of chronological order:)

[Haight]

I'm taken. Sorry.

[Bella]

Are you a hairdresser?

[ThatGirl]

I'm taken. Sorry.

Damn it! I knew it,......fine,.......... just delete the thread then.





Just kidding thats ok I really dont trust internet sources for potential mates.

[ThatGirl]

Are you a hairdresser?

yes

[Bella]

yes

That's cool! How long do you have to study for that here in the States.
That was the last question. Will not derail thread with S questions.

[ThatGirl]

only a year, the education is lacking suffieciently. Pretty much all they teach you is how to clean your impliments then send you out to work. I have heard that in Europe and other places the schooling is extensive. For me, it was a quick way to not earn minimum wage, especially through my college years.

I have to laugh that as I am sitting there stratigically building a weight line into the hair some artisan comes in and just makes good hair happen. Its been a fun challenge. It has also taught me to get in touch with my fasionable side. I do love my job.

[Bella]

In South Africa it used to be only a year too, but it's changed over the last few years and now it's 3 or 4 years or something like that. Every aspect of hairdressing gets covered.

[Edahn]

One last thing edahn think pulp fiction.

I was thinking more Nightmare on Elm Street.

[Kristiana]

I'm INTJ, and I have quite a few INTJ male friends. I'm also married to one :D As far as similarities to myself, it greatly depends on other factors, particularly worldview and belief systems. If those are similar and the type is the same, then yes, an INTJ male will be a lot like an INTJ female. Of course, one also has to account for life experiences.

[ThatGirl]

From what I have observed INTJs are the only ones who consistantly take things with a gain of salt without compromising their integrity. That is a cool balance.


I also have observed that they tend to hold strong conviction without false ego.

[Lukepd]

what exactly is a false ego? is that like a large ego?

[Edahn]

I think she left.