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Edasich
10-07-2008, 09:00 AM
Qualities etc

animenagai
10-07-2008, 09:04 AM
titties. big ones.
















































i also like people who are funny, aren't too high strung, clever and creative.

ps. don't go insane ladies, somehow the girls that i like all tend to be more ummm... streamlined.

CaptainChick
10-07-2008, 09:13 AM
I like big ol' titties too!!!

OHHHH, YEAH!!!

animenagai
10-07-2008, 09:17 AM
I like big ol' titties too!!!

OHHHH, YEAH!!!

that explains your avatar. :wubbie:

edit: looking at them again, i'm really disappointed. no bowls to go with the love handles.

JivinJeffJones
10-07-2008, 09:22 AM
i also like people who are funny, aren't too high strung, clever and creative.


Wait - so you like people who are funny but aren't "too high strung, clever and creative"? Nice. Clever and creative people irritate me too.

animenagai
10-07-2008, 09:24 AM
Wait - so you like people who are funny but aren't "too high strung, clever and creative"? Nice. Clever and creative people irritate me too.

you silly billy, you know what i mean. :steam:

JivinJeffJones
10-07-2008, 09:28 AM
you silly billy, you know what i mean. :steam:

Probably, but it'd be so much more intriguing to be wrong. :huh:

CaptainChick
10-07-2008, 03:40 PM
- Intelligence

- Integrity

- Sense of humor

- Independent thinkers

- Kindness

- Open-Mindedness

- Stability/Consistency/Reliability (yes, these are things that I sometimes lack ;) )

- Oddness (in a good way, and not a creepy way)

- Authenticity/Originality- in other words, a real character

- Good intentions

- Temperance

- Lack of religiosity, preferably to the extent of being agnostic or athiest

- Sensuality is a plus, but it is not a must.

- A love for nature

- Inquisitiveness

- Sarcasm (at moderate levels)

- Dryness, to a certain extent

- Introvertedness

- Myriad manifestations of nerdiness

- Outdoorsy-ness

- "I don't give a fuck about society"-ness

And that is all I can think of right now

:)

Lithium
10-07-2008, 03:43 PM
I tick all of those, but every tom, dick and harry would too.

VanillaCat
10-07-2008, 10:54 PM
I like people who make me think. And I LOOOOVE to laugh.

So, if someone can make insanely clever jokes, I'm hooked!

LadyJaye
10-07-2008, 11:57 PM
I have to agree with authenticity. Anyone who owns themselves, meaning they fully accept their strengths and limitations, and can be honest about them. I also appreciate a sense of humor, as I'm a pretty silly person generally, and intellectual curiosity, because I love to learn about new things and people.

phoenix13
10-08-2008, 02:08 AM
Intensity's a big one. Part of that is extremeness/depth of feeling. Hmmm, but the intensity would be diamond-like rather than fire-like. It's an introverted intensity... compressed.

...but the BIGGEST attraction is a guy who treats people well. Someone who respects human dignity, who's slow to judge/condemn, who holds people and knowledge in highest regard, who's always looking to grow and learn, who's humble, honest... ahhhh, I'm getting turned on you guys... not kidding...
*breathe*
OK, so an intense person with a soul that outshines the morning star. Second tier attractions include art appreciation/talent, patience, and cooking ability. Regarding that last one: I'm not picky, he can make mac&cheese all he wants, but nothing melts my heart like free food.

EDIT: Someone who accepts and appreciates ENFPs for who and what they are is HUGELY attractive.

animenagai
10-08-2008, 02:22 AM
Intensity's a big one. Part of that is extremeness/depth of feeling. Hmmm, but the intensity would be diamond-like rather than fire-like. It's an introverted intensity... compressed.

...but the BIGGEST attraction is a guy who treats people well. Someone who respects human dignity, who's slow to judge/condemn, who holds people and knowledge in highest regard, who's always looking to grow and learn, who's humble, honest... ahhhh, I'm getting turned on you guys... not kidding...
*breathe*
OK, so an intense person with a soul that outshines the morning star. Second tier attractions include art appreciation/talent, patience, and cooking ability. Regarding that last one: I'm not picky, he can make mac&cheese all he wants, but nothing melts my heart like free food.

EDIT: Someone who accepts and appreciates ENFPs for who and what they are is HUGELY attractive.

intense person with a moral standard? :hi:

edit: shit, she said humble!

Johnny23
10-08-2008, 03:08 AM
>.< Anyone who I can relate too who is real.

EvanTheClown
10-08-2008, 04:14 AM
Intelligence, Ability to communicate, intensity, sexiness

IEE623
10-08-2008, 05:27 PM
intellectuality, passion, felicitous articulation, etc.
for short.... {WISDOM}

Amargith
11-08-2008, 12:10 AM
intelligence, arrogance, non-judgemental nature, doesn't mind a bit of flirting ;)
It also helps if he's fascinated by odd and random phenomenons :P

Edgar
11-08-2008, 12:15 AM
intelligence, arrogance, non-judgemental nature, doesn't mind a bit of flirting ;)
It also helps if he's fascinated by odd and random phenomenons :P

Usually, arrogance and non-judgmental do not go hand in hand.

But if he is both those things, he would be an "odd and random phenomenon", and would be fascinated with himself, making him a narcissist.

Amargith
11-08-2008, 12:18 AM
LOL, however logical that sounds,I'm afraid I have to tell you you're wrong. I'm dating an INTJ who is like that :) He is non-judgemental on who I am, arrogant about his abilities (which is very appealing ;)) and he loves trying to make sense out of the randomness I create in our lives :). And I can vouch that he is not at all narcissistic.

Edgar
11-08-2008, 12:21 AM
LOL, however logical that sounds,I'm afraid I have to tell you you're wrong.

An NF discounting logic??

Why I never!

;)

Wild horses
11-08-2008, 12:26 AM
I find that I can find almost anything and everything attractive (Maybe I'm overly curious about people in gerneral no matter what they are like) There are very few people that I know who I would say are unattractive to me..

Amargith
11-08-2008, 12:27 AM
Grin, ok how about I adjust the data to feed into your logical conclusions:

I enjoy arrogance when it is justified (in the case of my boyfriend, he is unbelievably smart and competent), but at the same time I need someone who is openminded and tolerant enough not to judge me for being me, and not only that..someone who actually likes that about me :)

The thing I like for instance about INTJ's (at least some), is that although they love logic and they excel at it, they liked me because I am what they would consider an anomaly they are desperately trying to place in their module somewhere :P They don't try to change me, as they'd rather understand me.

Am I anywhere near some form of communication that makes sense to you? :)

Edgar
11-08-2008, 12:36 AM
Grin, ok how about I adjust the data to feed into your logical conclusions:

I enjoy arrogance when it is justified (in the case of my boyfriend, he is unbelievably smart and competent), but at the same time I need someone who is openminded and tolerant enough not to judge me for being me, and not only that..someone who actually likes that about me :)

The thing I like for instance about INTJ's (at least some), is that although they love logic and they excel at it, they liked me because I am what they would consider an anomaly they are desperately trying to place in their module somewhere :P They don't try to change me, as they'd rather understand me.

Am I anywhere near some form of communication that makes sense to you? :)

Oh I understand exactly what you are saying.

It's a common misconception that INTJs are always serious-cat-business types. INTJs actually enjoy being entertained, and ENFP's wacky, nonsensical antics are the perfect tool to keep INTJ from becoming a jaded, cynical wretch.

Having an ENFP girlfriend is like having a frisky pet.
A pet that you can have sex with without people thinking you are a fucked up deviant.

Amargith
11-08-2008, 12:49 AM
I've always found it intriguing that you logical people can be so amused by something that is so anti-logical. Don't really understand it, but I love the fact that you do :)

Edgar
11-08-2008, 12:51 AM
you logical people

http://www.iconocast.com/B000000000000026/I4/News1_2.jpg

Amargith
11-08-2008, 01:04 AM
aww, I didn't mean it badly :)
I'm just painfully aware of my lack of logic sometimes, so I try and understand people that do have it, in order to learn more :)

phoenix13
11-08-2008, 01:20 AM
Oh I understand exactly what you are saying.

It's a common misconception that INTJs are always serious-cat-business types. INTJs actually enjoy being entertained, and ENFP's wacky, nonsensical antics are the perfect tool to keep INTJ from becoming a jaded, cynical wretch.

Having an ENFP girlfriend is like having a frisky pet.
A pet that you can have sex with without people thinking you are a fucked up deviant.

Wow, this post is an enormous turn-off.

Wild horses
11-08-2008, 01:20 AM
If you're anything like me Amargith, it's not that you don't have any logic it's just it's not your preference right.. logic can seem sometimes..... mean somehow!

I think ENFPs in particular (The ones I know anyway) Are attracted to things that are different from them (Probably because we are the social scientists of the world and are curious to boot) and so we look those who display things we find unusual , it's why we love ISTJs so much and also why we love the logic magicians that are the NTs

XwH

Edgar
11-08-2008, 01:24 AM
Wow, this post was such a turn-off... and I mean that in the worst way possible.

http://img26.picoodle.com/img/img26/3/11/7/f_emodogm_c7fbf19.jpg

erinavery
11-08-2008, 01:30 AM
Having an ENFP girlfriend is like having a frisky pet.
A pet that you can have sex with without people thinking you are a fucked up deviant.

ahhh!!! my eyes!! my eyes!!! haha...did i really just read that!!?? WTF!!??

Edgar
11-08-2008, 01:33 AM
ahhh!!! my eyes!! my eyes!!! haha...did i really just read that!!?? WTF!!??

oh i went there, grrrrrllfriend.

niffer
11-08-2008, 06:56 AM
CaptainChick pretty much nailed it.

Essentially, just don't be anal unless you can be sexy like that. I've never found gushyness attractive either (assuming we're talking about gaiz here).

Edgar
11-08-2008, 07:00 AM
Essentially, just don't be anal unless you can be sexy like that.

Wow... the jokes I can make with that quote.

Sytpg
11-08-2008, 12:25 PM
Independence (independent from social norms), a pretty face and intelligence. It's a lot to ask for in one girl, but that's what get's me.


Wow... the jokes I can make with that quote.

Ah, but can you make us laugh?

Amargith
11-08-2008, 03:40 PM
I'm surrounded by people with Edgar's humor, so it didn't occur to me even to take offense *lol*

I know they usually don't mean it that way anyways :)

Edgar
11-08-2008, 07:48 PM
Ah, but can you make us laugh?

Am I here to amuse you?

Nillerz
11-08-2008, 07:51 PM
I want a woman with

-Tits that aren't too big, but there and perky
-Either smarter than me or dumb as a rock
-Enjoys the operation of fire-arms
-Knows how to swing an axe
-Capable chef
-Capable of not getting offended in a debate
-Doesnt' agree with me on everything
-No fat chicks
-Must put out.

Twixt
11-09-2008, 05:12 AM
I want a woman with

-Tits that aren't too big, but there and perky
-Either smarter than me or dumb as a rock
-Enjoys the operation of fire-arms
-Knows how to swing an axe
-Capable chef
-Capable of not getting offended in a debate
-Doesnt' agree with me on everything
-No fat chicks
-Must put out.

dude... you sure you're an ENFP? hahahaha ;) or are you just being srzly sarkaztick

Nillerz
11-09-2008, 08:56 PM
dude... you sure you're an ENFP? hahahaha ;) or are you just being srzly sarkaztick

I'm pretty sure I am an ENFP. I'm in 4srs mode.

Edgar
11-09-2008, 09:20 PM
I'm pretty sure I am an ENFP. I'm in 4srs mode.

Serious-cat serious?

wedekit
11-09-2008, 10:58 PM
Novelty and sensitivity to their emotions.

Wild horses
11-09-2008, 11:34 PM
Ahh like your thinking Wedekit!

G-Virus
11-10-2008, 12:33 AM
Up for novelty is a plus.
Umm. . . Interesting to talk to.
I love kind/soft hearted self sacraficing people. (if you like to serve people, I am here to serve you). . .

Wait, I lean more to the t side of things so disregard my response.

Nillerz
11-10-2008, 01:28 AM
the most serious serious-cate ever serioused.

EvanTheClown
11-10-2008, 02:54 AM
Ones who project that they have worth, without saying anything about it. Morals, self-respect, ingenuity, sense of humor, visually attractive

LunaIndigo
11-10-2008, 03:18 AM
I love people who are laid back and can have a good laugh at nothing. People who don't have a stick up the butt all the time. Anybody that can put up with me basically. I'm not too picky.

alcea rosea
11-10-2008, 06:08 AM
What do ENFPs find attractive in other people?

I find other ENFP's attractive. Hehe.

No, really.
I find humour attractive.
I find "deep" look in the eyes attractive.
I find reserved, strong types very attractive.
I find interesting thoughts attractive.
I find attractive people attractive for whatever the reason is. :D

Nillerz
11-10-2008, 07:05 AM
>>I find "deep" look in the eyes attractive.

Is that a common ENFP trait? I have that!

ed111
11-10-2008, 01:45 PM
I want a woman with

-Tits that aren't too big, but there and perky
-Either smarter than me or dumb as a rock
-Enjoys the operation of fire-arms
-Knows how to swing an axe
-Capable chef
-Capable of not getting offended in a debate
-Doesnt' agree with me on everything
-No fat chicks
-Must put out.

Yeah I like all those too, except that I like big tits.

LunaIndigo
11-10-2008, 07:34 PM
Oh I just remembered something. I want someone who I can have a conversation with. Like a real one with actual responses and you can tell the other person is listening to you. I get really frustrated with people who are just "yes..." or "no..." to everything I try to talk about.

Wild horses
11-10-2008, 07:38 PM
I would really like a ... (dare I say it)... spiritual connection with someone (Please don't tear me apart for being a flake I'm only ENFP after all!

headhurts
11-12-2008, 08:12 AM
Errr, most of these responses were incredibly superficial...

CaptainChick
11-12-2008, 08:14 AM
Errr, most of these responses were incredibly superficial...
:huh:

Care to elaborate?

headhurts
11-12-2008, 08:27 AM
Well, many mention physical attributes.

Also, some of the people that made longer lists state *odd* qualitites like an appreciation of art or talent. How they make someone attractive i fail to see.

I was expecting more i guess :dry:

Modern Nomad
11-12-2008, 08:32 AM
Well, many mention physical attributes.

Also, some of the people that made longer lists state *odd* qualitites like an appreciation of art or talent. How they make someone attractive i fail to see.

I was expecting more i guess :dry:

thats because a lot of emotions are purely from the vagina. the more you pound it, the more emotion there is.

-_- ;;

CaptainChick
11-12-2008, 08:36 AM
thats because a lot of emotions are purely from the vagina. the more you pound it, the more emotion there is.

-_- ;;

WOW.

Vaginae do not produce "emotions", rather ovaries do, or influence them via their production of estrogen and other hormones.

And...

"The more you pound it, the more emotion there is."?!!?!??!?!

Dude, ewwwwwwwwww!!!!

:sick:

:sick:

:sick:

Modern Nomad
11-12-2008, 08:37 AM
WOW.

Vaginae do not produce "emotions", rather ovaries do, or influence them via their production of estrogen and other hormones.

And...

"The more you pound it, the more emotion there is."?!!?!??!?!

Dude, ewwwwwwwwww!!!!

:sick:

:sick:

:sick:


i already threw up.

CaptainChick
11-12-2008, 08:38 AM
Well, many mention physical attributes.

Also, some of the people that made longer lists state *odd* qualitites like an appreciation of art or talent. How they make someone attractive i fail to see.

I was expecting more i guess :dry:
Some of "us" claim to be "ENFP", when clearly some of "us" aren't.

Please see below as a classic example of this impostor phenomenon.

thats because a lot of emotions are purely from the vagina. the more you pound it, the more emotion there is.

-_- ;;

Modern Nomad
11-12-2008, 08:41 AM
emotions do not come from ovaries. they don't come from anything physical...

i've loved an ex that was waiting until marriage to do the deed, more than other ex's that i had sex with...

but a lot of girls... are exactly how i described. make no mistake!

CaptainChick
11-12-2008, 08:42 AM
:huh:

WOW!!!

:huh:

noigmn
11-12-2008, 09:35 AM
Some of "us" claim to be "ENFP", when clearly some of "us" aren't.

Please see below as a classic example of this impostor phenomenon.

Though I would've picked them on writing style rather than content. ENFPs can have strange senses of humour and ways of making a point. Though vulgarity for the sake of it is pretty uncommon. The style of the follow up confirmed your suspicions a bit. Can't remember type that does it that way, but it isn't an ENFP trait. Headhurts might want to check INFP also. INFPs normally have a bit more evil humour in them, that comment sounded a bit Fe. Maybe an INFJ?

G-Virus
11-12-2008, 09:41 AM
Dude's what the hell?

Modern Nomad
11-12-2008, 09:45 AM
just the way i feel.

a lot of girls do derive too much emotion from sex

and it is possible to be in love without sex. was something i wanted to know can happen...

its pretty extreme, but i needed a period of cleansing too.

noigmn
11-12-2008, 09:48 AM
just the way i feel.

a lot of girls do derive too much emotion from sex

and it is possible to be in love without sex

its pretty extreme, but i needed a period of cleansing too.

I don't completely disagree with the point, just how you made it. Most people attach more if they have slept with eachother. It's sort of a human trait.

G-Virus
11-12-2008, 09:50 AM
No idea here, dare I use the V word to describe myself. Sadly but proudly (by choice), yes I am a virgin, but I have been told that there is no such thing as casual sex.

Modern Nomad
11-12-2008, 09:52 AM
I don't completely disagree with the point, just how you made it. Most people attach more if they have slept with eachother. It's sort of a human trait.

still not sure what u mean at all

but yea, i ranged from little bit E to moderate more E, and a little more P than J. but its the same all 3 or 4 times i took it overall. if thats what u mean...

noigmn
11-12-2008, 10:27 AM
still not sure what u mean at all

but yea, i ranged from little bit E to moderate more E, and a little more P than J. but its the same all 3 or 4 times i took it overall. if thats what u mean...

Yeh, it's cool. If you're in a shit spot then might be ENFP, just it was uncharacteristic for ENFPs normally so I was seconding Captain Chicks response. Don't know why but I don't even go that sort of comment in the sporting change rooms when the rest of the guys are. If I felt I had to say it I'd try to find ways to avoid it.

My comment on the follow up was because it is also unusual for an ENFP to not do the backdown in that case. Instead you went the attempt at readjusting and being right, no hint of apology. Which I class more with Fe and non NFs, from what I've seen most ENFPs don't really mind being wrong that much. Though it is characteristic if you are in the shits and it is really holding you down and frustrating you. ENFP won't back down easily at all in that case.

Modern Nomad
11-12-2008, 10:35 AM
Yeh, it's cool. If you're in a shit spot then might be ENFP, just it was uncharacteristic for ENFPs normally so I was seconding Captain Chicks response. Don't know why but I don't even go that sort of comment in the sporting change rooms when the rest of the guys are. If I felt I had to say it I'd try to find ways to avoid it.

My comment on the follow up was because it is also unusual for an ENFP to not do the backdown in that case. Instead you went the attempt at readjusting and being right. Which I class more with Fe, from what I've seen most ENFPs don't really mind being wrong that much. Though it is characteristic if you are in the shits and it is really holding you down and frustrating you. ENFP won't back down easily at all in that case.

oh. i guess its more reflective of my thought processes with some... relationships i am dealing with... my not backing down is probably more to do with loyalty to something in this case...

but yeah. i dunno why i bothered to mention it in the first place. some spur of the moment thing i guess...

Amargith
11-12-2008, 10:52 AM
I'd say that last sentence is pretty ENFP, though.. :)

Modern Nomad
11-12-2008, 11:07 AM
haha thnx enfp homies! lol

i think i had some profound realizations about myself in the past few posts... this is some good stuff... ^_^

phoenix13
11-12-2008, 05:31 PM
Well, many mention physical attributes.

Also, some of the people that made longer lists state *odd* qualitites like an appreciation of art or talent. How they make someone attractive i fail to see.

I was expecting more i guess :dry:


You don't see how talent is attractive!? Are you a stone sculpture? Are you a zombie? Are you the tin man? Or perhaps it's not your heart that's missing... :strawman:

I do agree about the superficiality of some of these responses, though. It's not surprising given the whole reproductive instinct.

JivinJeffJones
11-12-2008, 05:33 PM
You don't see how talent is attractive!? Are you a stone sculpture? Are you a zombie? Are you the tin man? Or perhaps it's not your heart that's missing... :strawman:

:alttongue:


pleasepleaseplease *fingers crossed*

noigmn
11-12-2008, 10:17 PM
oh. i guess its more reflective of my thought processes with some... relationships i am dealing with... my not backing down is probably more to do with loyalty to something in this case...

but yeah. i dunno why i bothered to mention it in the first place. some spur of the moment thing i guess...

:) Yeh, makes sense. I don't normally back down if I care strongly either way. Or have noticed something I think none of the world sees.

I'm going to offend a few people maybe by taking up the topic and discussing it, but your point isn't that bad. As an ENFP guy you often find that you aren't the most forward person. You create strong bonds of friendship then girls run off and take the first smooth guy who comes through and talks them into bed. To tell the truth they probably liked you but didn't form that romantic bond at all because of your approach. That doesn't mean you change and be something you aren't, it is just good to realise so when you approach them to ask such things you understand the response. All people get sexually frustrated also, it is actually cruel to withhold sometimes. I learnt this when I had a friend who was STP maybe. Abstinence can be control as much as sleeping with someone. At least with the second you aren't dangling them in almost. You let the bond be complete. I was almost screaming sleep with her you asshole or at least kiss her. It's good to make things clear with people sometimes. It isn't romantic or anything like that, but it means they can make the decisions for the right reasons and not get caught up on things. Removes the whole games from it all (I'm talking about the damaging non fun part, not the flirting). One of the best lines I've ever heard as an ENFP was "give me some credit". Have that in your mind when you approach these things, the other person is just as complex and capable as you are. And their reasons are too.

p.s. if you want to out do the other guys as ENFP you can probably outflirt and create more interest than most, it is just we get quiet and don't back our skills because we think as a guy we have to do it the way the others do. Hence things like the comment you made. We start believing in conforming to things society says. As you get older and believe less in some barriers that aren't there, it gets quite easy to be honest and to not have people wander and feel no romance. Have a look at the perception of ENFPs in general. I've heard late 20s some ENFP guys realise this ability and go a bit nuts and to the other extreme. So yeh, back yourself in on it. We are too self conscious sometimes. But if you take notice of what that Ne is telling you rather than getting focussed on yourself, you'll realise the girls actually find connecting quite sexy :), and probably a lot more than "hey want a fuck". The ideal I'm guessing for most people would be sex with someone who connects and loves them, it's just if you demonise sex then it is a bit unattractive to want you for it.

Modern Nomad
11-12-2008, 10:56 PM
You create strong bonds of friendship then girls run off and take the first smooth guy who comes through and talks them into bed. To tell the truth they probably liked you but didn't form that romantic bond at all because of your approach.

ah... i get what u mean. i guess some of my relationships were more like... all she wanted was sex sex sex, and sometimes i was just tired and just wanted to chill and hang out. i mean for a month or so, the sex sex sex thing is cool, but later on, i want something more meaningful i guess... i mean i have to blame myself to some degree, bc its what i wanted in the first place... u know? and i find myself sticking around bc i'd feel guilty to some degree...

and that meaningful things i found with relationships that weren't as based on sex...

Nillerz
11-13-2008, 05:27 AM
emotions do not come from ovaries. they don't come from anything physical...

i've loved an ex that was waiting until marriage to do the deed, more than other ex's that i had sex with...

but a lot of girls... are exactly how i described. make no mistake!
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Unleash the power of the caps lock!

G-Virus
11-13-2008, 05:39 AM
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Unleash the power of the caps lock!

What your really shooting for is the pituitary gland (anterior and posterior). The hormones are mainly to control pissing or growing pubes, but some effects on mental state. Your main thing for emotions are the neurotransmitters, and neurotransmitters are not amino acids at all. They are monoamines, as in were once amino acids but then some enzyme decarboxylated them.

Hexis
11-13-2008, 05:50 AM
Well, many mention physical attributes.

Also, some of the people that made longer lists state *odd* qualitites like an appreciation of art or talent. How they make someone attractive i fail to see.

I was expecting more i guess :dry:

So what if its superficial, im also only attracted to well "attractive" chicks. Now a lot of the traits mentioned earlier such as Independent, Confident, a sense of humor and Intelligent are all things I like in a partner but first before all else she has to be attractive. I could care less if you think that's superficial but I highly doubt you can fully disagree with me that you dont feel the same way.

At some point your gona have to "like" looking at your partner.

Nillerz
11-13-2008, 05:53 AM
But in the land of neuropeptides, heroine is king.

G-Virus
11-13-2008, 05:58 AM
But in the land of neuropeptides, heroine is king.

Heroin is not a peptide, its just a kick ass molecule. peptide is the bonds amino acids make N--C--O--N--C--O

Man I am just being an ass so forgive me.

Nillerz
11-13-2008, 06:00 AM
Stop being smarter than meeee!
<:'U

Hexis
11-13-2008, 06:01 AM
<:'U

What is that, the hangman smiley?!

G-Virus
11-13-2008, 06:04 AM
Stop being smarter than meeee!
<:'U

Stop talking chemistry :devil: I know little about anything else.

headhurts
11-13-2008, 06:08 AM
You don't see how talent is attractive!? Are you a stone sculpture? Are you a zombie? Are you the tin man? Or perhaps it's not your heart that's missing... :strawman:

I do agree about the superficiality of some of these responses, though. It's not surprising given the whole reproductive instinct.

'Talent' is usually the consequence of a set of qualities a person possesses.

For example, if a person is honest, determined and enthusiastic, these qualities may led to an appreciation of art or a particular talent. To put the outcome of a quality down, without listing any qualities and stating physical attributes on top of that, i find... well... superficial.

headhurts
11-13-2008, 06:11 AM
I could care less if you think that's superficial but I highly doubt you can fully disagree with me that you dont feel the same way.

Good for you Boss. If you choose to live a life without substance, in the end, no one will care for you either.

Man, I find this hard to believe. Are you ENFPs just playing with me, or do you really believe in the stuff you've written?

Chris_in_Orbit
11-13-2008, 07:16 AM
You don't see how talent is attractive!? Are you a stone sculpture? Are you a zombie? Are you the tin man? Or perhaps it's not your heart that's missing... :strawman:

I do agree about the superficiality of some of these responses, though. It's not surprising given the whole reproductive instinct.

Somebody actually found a way to use that smiley in a post?! :worthy:

CaptainChick
11-13-2008, 07:30 AM
EMOTIONS ARE 4 CHAIN AMINO ACIDS RELEASED FROM THE HYPOTHALAMUS THAT DOCK ONTO RECEPTOR SITES ON A CELL AND CHANGE THE CHEMISTRY OF THE CELL TO SUIT AN ENVIRONMENT THAT WOULD TRIGGER THE RELEASE OF SAID AMINO ACID.

Unleash the power of the caps lock!

What your really shooting for is the pituitary gland (anterior and posterior). The hormones are mainly to control pissing or growing pubes, but some effects on mental state. Your main thing for emotions are the neurotransmitters, and neurotransmitters are not amino acids at all. They are monoamines, as in were once amino acids but then some enzyme decarboxylated them.

But in the land of neuropeptides, heroine is king.

Heroin is not a peptide, its just a kick ass molecule. peptide is the bonds amino acids make N--C--O--N--C--O

Man I am just being an ass so forgive me.
Hmmmm!!!

Geek speak!!!

:drool:

Modern Nomad
11-13-2008, 07:34 AM
EMOTIONS ARE 4 CHAIN AMINO ACIDS RELEASED FROM THE HYPOTHALAMUS THAT DOCK ONTO RECEPTOR SITES ON A CELL AND CHANGE THE CHEMISTRY OF THE CELL TO SUIT AN ENVIRONMENT THAT WOULD TRIGGER THE RELEASE OF SAID AMINO ACID.

Unleash the power of the caps lock!

you can release endorphins in other more meaningful ways (this comes n goes)

*throws glue on nillerz caps lock button*

G-Virus
11-13-2008, 07:47 AM
Hmmmm!!!

Geek speak!!!

:drool:

Koolest freaking smiley ever.

Yeah I went there, I like spelling things like ciggerette companies.

CaptainChick
11-13-2008, 07:56 AM
I do not like your sig reference of the vagina as being a "taco".

:dont:

Hexis
11-13-2008, 07:58 AM
And I disapprove of your disapproval.

G-Virus
11-13-2008, 08:02 AM
I do not like your sig reference of the vagina as being a "taco".

:dont:

Hmm . . . That is a really bad side effect. Would it help if I told you it was all in the name of humor?

CaptainChick
11-13-2008, 08:05 AM
And I disapprove of your disapproval.

Hey pumpkin, would you like me to fly my ass to Houston to show you just how strong my pimp hand is? :smooch:

Hexis
11-13-2008, 08:06 AM
Hey pumpkin, would you like me to fly my ass to Houston to show you just how strong my taco hand is? :smooch:

:huh:

G-Virus
11-13-2008, 08:06 AM
Hey pumpkin, would you like me to fly my ass to Houston to show you just how strong my pimp hand is? :smooch:

Out of curiousity, why so violent?

CaptainChick
11-13-2008, 08:09 AM
Hmm . . . That is a really bad side effect. Would it help if I told you it was all in the name of humor?
Hmm, okay, I guess.

May I then refer to your member as Mr. Limpotent?

:)

G-Virus
11-13-2008, 08:11 AM
Hmm, okay, I guess.

May I then refer to your member as Mr. Limpotent?

:)

I would prefer not, as we have not yet really met, and that would be kind of rude.

CaptainChick
11-13-2008, 08:11 AM
Taco hand??!?!?

:rofl1:

Now that is just plain redonculous!!!!

And, I am the furthest thing from being violent, I am a passionate pacifist, fuck you very much!!!

Hexis
11-13-2008, 08:12 AM
fuck you very much!!!

Maybe later? :coffee:

G-Virus
11-13-2008, 08:13 AM
Taco hand??!?!?

:rofl1:

Now that is just plain redonculous!!!!

And, I am the furthest thing from being violent, I am a passionate pacifist, fuck you very much!!!

I guess, I am going to have to Ghandi it up and just take the abuse, especially since its from a cutie. :hug:

CaptainChick
11-13-2008, 08:20 AM
Maybe later? :coffee:

Please?!?!?!?!

:wubbie:

But only if you promise to wear this little number, meow... k?

http://i282.photobucket.com/albums/kk259/dracechables/009-2.jpg

G-Virus
11-13-2008, 08:21 AM
I tried, and this is why I think I'm a T.

Hexis
11-13-2008, 08:21 AM
As long as I can keep the beer thats in my hand you got a deal!

Nillerz
11-13-2008, 08:45 AM
but
Vaginas are delicious, much like tacos.

ByMySword
11-13-2008, 08:55 AM
As long as I can keep the beer thats in my hand you got a deal!

Sure that wasn't Caribou Lou?

Oh, well. Either way, right?

And I just wanted to take this time to compliment my picture taking ability. ;)

CaptainChick
11-13-2008, 09:01 AM
but
Vaginas are delicious, much like tacos.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAA!!!!

:D

This reminds me of a funny story, after a night of drinking a male friend of mine was eating a gyro and it looked really gross, and when I commented on this fact he responded that it was, and I quote, "Just like pussy, sloppy and delicious!!!"

:shock:

Nillerz
11-13-2008, 09:19 AM
Seriously though, tacos are fucking awesome. I can eat them all day, I got a technique down and everything. It's great when the juices are just dripping and you lick it up and the taste is just something you will never forget.Tehn you actually start biting into it.. mmm mmm mmm.

Modern Nomad
11-13-2008, 09:22 AM
Seriously though, tacos are fucking awesome. I can eat them all day, I got a technique down and everything. It's great when the juices are just dripping and you lick it up and the taste is just something you will never forget.Tehn you actually start biting into it.. mmm mmm mmm.

are u jerking off while ur writing this?

CaptainChick
11-13-2008, 09:24 AM
Seriously though, tacos are fucking awesome. I can eat them all day, I got a technique down and everything. It's great when the juices are just dripping and you lick it up and the taste is just something you will never forget.Tehn you actually start biting into it.. mmm mmm mmm.
:unsure:

;)

Nillerz
11-13-2008, 09:31 AM
See? The two are easily comparable.
Weiner is not a euphamism for penis.

CaptainChick
11-13-2008, 09:34 AM
You're making my vagina feel very uncomfortable with your explicit description of just how scrumdiddlyumptuously delicious you find eating "tacos" is. Especially the part when you describe "actually biting into it"....

*crosses legs*

Amargith
11-13-2008, 09:39 AM
Just slice and dice a cucumber in return..he should get the message ;)