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Provoker
09-29-2008, 07:09 AM
So, you were in a relationship for a long time that ended and now you've been single for a little bit and you're thinking about dating again. How do you bring sexy back?
Terian
09-29-2008, 07:12 AM
I wear spandex. And an eye patch. I am legendary.
Jack Flak
09-29-2008, 07:41 AM
"Is it true that if you don't use it, you lose it?"
Bella
09-29-2008, 07:44 AM
"Is it true that if you don't use it, you lose it?"

Nah, I think it's like a can of beans left in the sun.
kyuuei
09-29-2008, 07:49 AM
"Is it true that if you don't use it, you lose it?"
:mad:
Was that a serious question?!


Heart that movie. Uhm.. When I finally decided to start dating again.. I'm no good at this hun, sorry. I do suggest a sense of humor and dancing. I like both of these, so I assume any woman worth dating must like these as well.
EffEmDoubleyou
09-29-2008, 08:05 AM
A crimson crushed velvet smoking jacket. Trust me.
Bella
09-29-2008, 08:06 AM
A crimson crushed velvet smoking jacket. Trust me.

heee
kyuuei
09-29-2008, 08:09 AM
A crimson crushed velvet smoking jacket. Trust me.

<Melts at the mere mention of it.>
ajblaise
09-29-2008, 08:12 AM
hmmm how can an INTJ bring it's sexy back... become another MBTI type?
ByMySword
09-29-2008, 08:16 AM
My sexy never left me in the first place, so its never been a concern. ;)
01011010
09-29-2008, 12:23 PM
Get buzzed. Take a lady out dancing. Works every single time. Not.

Or build a computer with someone that knows how to do it more efficiently. Or have a rousing debate about anything as long as our views are contradictory and the other person is able to debate logically. I will jump someone pretty quickly if they can mentally stimulate me from the opposing side.
BerberElla
09-29-2008, 12:27 PM
Regain your confidence, if you feel like your sexy has gone then it will have gone because you've lost the confidence that made you sexy in the first place.
runvardh
09-29-2008, 06:54 PM
I just talk to girls and it eventually happens; the less effort I put in the better it seems to work.
Edahn
09-29-2008, 06:58 PM
http://www.drugsinfo.ie/fs/img/drugs/alcohol.jpg
Uberfuhrer
09-29-2008, 07:02 PM
I take photographs of myself that make me look like I'm going to attack the cameraman.
Uberfuhrer
09-29-2008, 07:03 PM
http://www.drugsinfo.ie/fs/img/drugs/alcohol.jpg

I laughed, but it wasn't a sexy one.
Bella
09-29-2008, 07:43 PM
Socks and flip-flops.

Yup.

That's when I really want to impress.
kyuuei
09-29-2008, 07:45 PM
:heart:!
EffEmDoubleyou
09-29-2008, 08:13 PM
Socks and flip-flops.

Yup.

That's when I really want to impress.

I think it just got a little hot up in here.
Uberfuhrer
09-29-2008, 08:14 PM
I think it just got a little hot up in here.

Yeah, I just set myself on fire to protest.
Synarch
10-15-2008, 06:59 PM
Regain your confidence, if you feel like your sexy has gone then it will have gone because you've lost the confidence that made you sexy in the first place.

You've nailed it.

Confidence = You're okay no matter what. Independent yet engaged in the physical and social world around you.

As soon as you stop worrying about being sexy while simultaneously trying to stay connected with others and healthy, you will be sexy. Look after your apppearance, get healthy, and just try to build good relationships with your friends. As far as when you're ready to meet some women, enlist the help of other women and try to hang out with some hot female friends. They will provide social proof.
Firelie
10-15-2008, 10:38 PM
So, you were in a relationship for a long time that ended and now you've been single for a little bit and you're thinking about dating again. How do you bring sexy back?

That's making the assumption that the sexy left when the relationship ended.

I think the real problem is why a person's sexy would depart in the first place.

Mine likes to stick with me all the time!
BlackOp
10-16-2008, 12:01 AM
So, you were in a relationship for a long time that ended and now you've been single for a little bit and you're thinking about dating again. How do you bring sexy back?

I bought a Porsche....and I'm gonna get me a German princess out of spite. I cant speak German so we should get along swell. Girls say they dont care about cars.....its a lie. :yes: The problem is a lot of guys want to talk to you too....It's fun being shallow but its even more fun pretending to be shallow.

BTW, less than 5% find intjs sexy..and they live in trees. You have to bring the "sexy" to them.
LeonardoLestat
11-09-2008, 08:57 AM
So, you were in a relationship for a long time that ended and now you've been single for a little bit and you're thinking about dating again. How do you bring sexy back?

art.
GargoylesLegacy
11-09-2008, 06:37 PM
I think BerberElla and Synarch really said it with
Regain your confidence, if you feel like your sexy has gone then it will have gone because you've lost the confidence that made you sexy in the first place.

Also, when you are happy you tend to have a reaaaally great and attracting Charisma, which also makes you sexy.
So basically do Something you enjoy and makes you feel self-confident. That will so do it! :yes:
Willfrey
11-09-2008, 06:42 PM
As far as when you're ready to meet some women, enlist the help of other women and try to hang out with some hot female friends. They will provide social proof.

Bingo. I've met more women through the G/F's of my other friends then I've met on my own.
Wild horses
11-09-2008, 06:45 PM
Socks and flip-flops.
..... Always wondered what made the Geisha so sought after!