[GirlAmerica]

XSFJ's....I tend not to be able to deal with them at all...
I feel like I am in some sort of parallel universe where things are happening...though on completely different levels.
It is never comfortable.
One in my entire life (also my grandmother) is the only one I have truly enjoyed...and even then we had language/idea/value clashes.

For instance, she LOVED the democratic party. Now, being conservative...you might think I would have a problem with it. Truly, I dont.
To each their own. The problem I had with it was she accepted reasoning from the depression era and blanketed modern day politics.
Not ever considering that the democratic party that 'bailed us out, we would have starved to death' was not the democratic party of today.
She never could 'get' it, no matter how much conversation....

The frustration level with such is WAY TOO MUCH FOR ME.