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I am not sure if I have mentioned this but it's common for an enfp to mask so that people will like them. I was not sheltered from this and masked as an esfj for a while just so I could fit into my family, I was possibly more I than E even.

Another thing I think we need to take into account is birthing placement. My entp hubby was the baby of the family for 9yrs before the twins came along and he took advantage of that situation, as he grew up he was taught that he has something to prove, actually more that he needed to prove something.

Yes he's willing, yes he's trying, it's not easy though and we struggle and I would rather submit than fight, would rather fall then be picked up