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Yeah that's what I meant - I think the thing I read about ENFP and INTP being each other's counterparts meant that they play the same part as each other, in different 'worlds' - perhaps this means that the role ENFP's play amongst people is the same as the INTP plays in the intellectual world... the questioner, improver, clarifier, perhaps?

Now, what I was getting at, is that if that's the relationship between INTP and ENFP, it might shed some light on why ENFP/ENTP miscommunicate at times... my experience of us both trying to do the same thing and saying the same thing, but speaking in different 'languages' so that neither of us notices that's what's going on, and both thinks the other is arguing/disagreeing/attacking. Only later after much thought, have I realised every time this was what happened between my brother and I.