[GZA]

Before I begin, let me say that I've never been in a relationship, so these answers are based on how I think I would probably treat it. I'm bolded.

Originally Posted by CzeCze

What do you look for in a significant other?
I'm really not sure...

Do they HAVE to be "Mr/Mrs Righ" or will "good enough" do? Do you just sometimes need to be with SOMEONE (anyone?)
I don't think "mrs right" makes any sense. I think there could be tonnes of women I'd be perfectly happy with, and its simply a matter of finding one and making it work.

Do you have 'friends with benefits' and if so, how do you determine who you'll do this with and how does this relationship play out?
I think I might be able to do something like that (although I prefer the term "fuck buddies" as it doesn't sound like a real "friendship"). I guess I'd do that with someone with strong physical passion but only limited chemistry otherwise.

Are you a traditional 1 person at a time monogamous type or do you play the field or have ambiguous relationships or else nontraditional arrangements with people?
I think I'm mostly a monogamous type person

How to decide when to step it up from casual dating to something else?
I don't think it would be a step, it would be a smooth development, not a leap from one seperate thing to another

Are you a tease? A flirt? Do you flirt with intent or just for fun?
I once flirted with this girl a lot just for fun... I think she really liked me, and in that sense I may have led her on, thus making me a "tease". That was almost like an experiment to see if I could get a girl to like me. It worked ::

How do you get out of relationships?
I don't know.

Are you usually calling the shots?
I don't understand the question... so yes

Can you tell when you first meet someone that they are Dating/Long Term/ Fun material?
I don't think so... but maybe on some tiny level.

Do you ask people out or make it clear that you want to be asked out or are you very sly about it or does being asked out catch you off guard?
I think I'd probably be low-key about it. It wouldn't be "lets go on a date", it would be more subtle than that.

Even if you two had great chemistry, are there any deal-breakers?
I don't know... maybe if she ended up being a man?


How important in dating/love/sex to you and how do you meet your needs?
It will probably one day become very, VERY important

What is your criteria for determing if someone is 'longterm' material and how do you get there?
I don't think I have any, I think it would just happen