I'll bite:
What do you look for in a significant other?
Before all else, kindness. Intelligence doesn't hurt, either.
Do they HAVE to be "Mr/Mrs Right" or will "good enough" do? Do you just sometimes need to be with SOMEONE (anyone?)
I can't say that I think this way. I can go on about what I like and what I don't like, but the bottom line is that a human being is a human being, and not a laundry list of traits that make him "good enough" or "not good enough."
And I'm perfectly fine with not being in a relationship.
Do you have 'friends with benefits' and if so, how do you determine who you'll do this with and how does this relationship play out?
No.
Are you a traditional 1 person at a time monogamous type or do you play the field or have ambiguous relationships or else nontraditional arrangements with people?
Monogamous.
How to decide when to step it up from casual dating to something else?
This is one of the few areas in life where I just let be, and see where things go.
Are you a tease? A flirt? Do you flirt with intent or just for fun?
Not really. It feels so fake to me.
How do you get out of relationships?
The chicken way - I stop calling.
Are you usually calling the shots?
Sometimes.
Can you tell when you first meet someone that they are Dating/Long Term/ Fun material?
Not at the first meeting. It takes a bit longer.
Do you ask people out or make it clear that you want to be asked out or are you very sly about it or does being asked out catch you off guard?
Something in between. I'm not usually caught off-guard.
Even if you two had great chemistry, are there any deal-breakers?
Misogyny, racism, extreme combativeness, lack of empathy.
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