Eesh, I guess I'll jump on the bandwagon.
Backgound
1. What is your personality type?
Mostly ENFJ, sometimes ESFJ, Carping Hell Witch all the time.
2. Are you male or female?
Natural DDs
3. What country do you live in now? What country are you born in?
USA/USA
4. What cultural background are you?
Black, African-American. Am I the only black person on this forum?? We need more than diversity of MBTI types here.
5. What religion are you? What religion is your family?
Non-denominational Christian, raised Pentecostal
Questions
6. What career are you in or looking to be in? What are you doing right now to help you achieve this career goal?
I'm a CME program coordinator. I hope to attend graduate school within the next year and half for Education Policy or Public Policy. I'm trying to meet the right people to help me reach this goal because it's not what you know, but who you know. Sounds superficial but it's true.
7. What is your friendships like with both genders? How many good friends do you have and why are you friends with these people?
Most of my friends are women. I'd like to have more male friends but I'm uncomfortable making friendships with men because when I've tried they've taken it where I don't want it to go. I'm friends with my friends because I can be silly with them and make all the mean and bitchy comments about people that I have the graciousness not to say out loud. They also check me when I get out of control, which I appreciate. I have about 5-7 friends arranged in a concentric circle of which I'm the nucleus. Not everyone I hang out with is a friend, but I can have a good time or decent conversation with most of the people I meet.
8. What paranoias do you have?
I don't trust people.
9. What are your vices?
I'm horribly self-indulgent. Rarely do I ever say no to myself and I'm very impulsive. This could get long and I'm already disclosing enough so I'll stop there.
10. What are your fears?
That I'll die alone, that I'll be taken advantage of, that I'll go to hell, that something's under my bed or in my closet.
11. What is your relationship like with your parents? siblings (if you had any)?
Excellent relationship with my family. My parents were open, told us the truth about the world, didn't hide life from us, and trusted God they were raising us right. I have a very solid family relationship and foundation. Excellent relationship with my siblings, we make each other laugh and I know I can depend on them for anything.
12. How are you with expressing emotion in public?
I'm comfortable expressing most of my emotions publicly happiness especially. I believe that sometimes you need to show people tangibly and visibly what you're feeling, but I'm rarely out of control. I have a very good grip on my public emotions. Privately, not so much.
13. How do you think people saw you in high school? How do you think people see you now?
Socially, I was of average popularity. I dressed fashionably and that kept a lot of people off my case. I tried harder to fit in in while I was high school, but I only went so far. I was friendly with everyone (students and teachers) although I did make some enemies. I was active in SGA and played softball. Now, I think I'm that person that's cool with mostly everyone. I don't think my social standing has changed all that much.
And finally....
14. What do you see as the point to your life and life in general?
Wow, I'm going to have to think about this. I'm going to keep it simple and say we are to love everyone as ourselves. In addition to that I've always enjoyed this idea: "Each one, reach one." That is much harder than it sounds.
Thanks all for looking at this and thank you for those of you who answered the questions.
You're welcome!