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Originally Posted by Uytuun
IMO and in my experience the martyr-like accomodating of others that NFJs are always linked to stems from a deep (existential) need to receive a strong emotional bond/affirmation in return. As such, its status as "real caring about others" is problematic because they essentially do it for themselves rather than for the other person.
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Don't you think that every type wants to develop an intense bond with another person? Maybe NTs find it easier to push the need aside, but I still think it's present.
Although, I do agree that no actions are totally altruistic. We only sacrifice for other people because we get some sort of positive feeling as a result.