INTs. Possibly INTJs...we do tend towards lone-wolf-erism. I don't see myself getting married...I might have a lifelong relationship or a couple of intense relationships, but the concept of marriage doesn't appeal to me.
I wonder whether the relatively great number of xSFJ-INTJ marriages is due to the fact that they essentially leave you alone because they can't follow you into your N world and tend to "obey" or look up to you (no offence SFJs), but also look after you and take away all the mundane stuff. It seems like a practical thing to do from both perspectives. Hardly fun or exciting, though...I'd prefer a meeting of the minds/souls.
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Some of these INTJs never learn to care deeply about anyone but themselves
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Is there such a thing as real caring for the sake of the other person when the extender of the care needs the positive response, the bond, the appreciation and the affirmation he gets in return in a most fundamental way? At times I find Fe caring to be utterly selfish. INTJs don't need the above (to the same extent) and so are potentially very caring...which we can indeed be...in our own way.